Mutiara Islam - Each trip home life there is always a period where it would be hard to live. Therefore, set the obligation for the husband or wife in order to have the responsibility of each household to preserve the relationship and try to avoid anything that could cause damage to the relationship.
One of the things that often happens in public, many husbands who bring problems in the workplace into the home. This is very dangerous, because it would be one of the root causes of household. If the husband was having severe problems to the leader or at work, he probably will not receive any explanation from his wife. For example, when a new husband comes home from work, then his wife greeted him with a list of items that must be purchased, then he would reject all requests it, even though in a normal day when you're not facing psychological problems, requisition it will certainly granted easily, because the daily needs that must be met, even might be greeted with joy and gracefully.
Has conducted various studies by psychologists, to reveal the squabble between husband and wife. And researchers convey some message that should be practiced by the husband and wife, among others:
1. Should a wife does not convey the purpose of the family when the new husband comes home from work. Convey when the atmosphere is conducive or when her husband was happy.
2. Should the wife does not complain of fatigue and exhaustion, both when he was working at home, or when working outside the home, because the husband may also bear problem bigger job than the wife problem. Therefore do discussion with her husband to propose alternative solutions. Due to prudent wife is a wife who is able to create comfortable conditions in the house, so the house it actually serves as a place to rest for a husband and children.
3. When the husband was arguing with the wife's family members should be positioned on the side of the family. This will make your husband think that is very concerned about my husband's family, so the husband would honor and respect your opinion.
Cooperation is very important in the family, a wife should be able to convince her husband that every problem there is a way out, provided we want to try to settle, God willing, there will be a given path. By dibantudo'a and do deeds in sunahkan, hopefully on the road will pass more easily.
One of the things that often happens in public, many husbands who bring problems in the workplace into the home. This is very dangerous, because it would be one of the root causes of household. If the husband was having severe problems to the leader or at work, he probably will not receive any explanation from his wife. For example, when a new husband comes home from work, then his wife greeted him with a list of items that must be purchased, then he would reject all requests it, even though in a normal day when you're not facing psychological problems, requisition it will certainly granted easily, because the daily needs that must be met, even might be greeted with joy and gracefully.
Has conducted various studies by psychologists, to reveal the squabble between husband and wife. And researchers convey some message that should be practiced by the husband and wife, among others:
1. Should a wife does not convey the purpose of the family when the new husband comes home from work. Convey when the atmosphere is conducive or when her husband was happy.
2. Should the wife does not complain of fatigue and exhaustion, both when he was working at home, or when working outside the home, because the husband may also bear problem bigger job than the wife problem. Therefore do discussion with her husband to propose alternative solutions. Due to prudent wife is a wife who is able to create comfortable conditions in the house, so the house it actually serves as a place to rest for a husband and children.
3. When the husband was arguing with the wife's family members should be positioned on the side of the family. This will make your husband think that is very concerned about my husband's family, so the husband would honor and respect your opinion.
Cooperation is very important in the family, a wife should be able to convince her husband that every problem there is a way out, provided we want to try to settle, God willing, there will be a given path. By dibantudo'a and do deeds in sunahkan, hopefully on the road will pass more easily.
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